Recently, when a woman called and told me she was my ex-husband's fiancé (unbeknownst to anyone), I had to tell her he was calling, emailing, and texting me about how much he still loved me. Per her request, I had to show her the texts and emails on my phone so that she could see the dates. My daughters told me to leave it alone and stop answering him. They said she would figure it out herself. But engaged? That was a shocker, and what if she married him? She claimed to have broken the engagement but stuck around and is still with him. He's in jail, so I guess she figures he will stay away from me, and she can forgive him for his trespasses. She seems to adore him, but he is a manipulative alcoholic. I would want to be told just like the ex-girlfriend told you.