Ruby, it cannot be easy to have adoptive children and people who are clueless! It's bad enough with comments about your birth children.

I had a doctor in an ER checking my blond, blue-eyed child while I was holding my brown-haired, brown-eyed child, and he had the nerve to say, "Different fathers?" What an ass! They had the same father!! Genetics tend to mix around. My oldest daughter asked me why he said that. She was 4. What could I tell her??