See Edward, I was right. You have much to say! There are many positives about him. He conducts his life and affairs quite well. He owed a lot of money over the last 7 years. Fines, sales tax from his business that went under (actually our business and that started the drinking), and gobs of money for that blow box situation. He left me everything when we divorced. he did not take a penny. I agreed and in January he paid for us to go to a counselor to help us reunite. The counselor was not to my taste (sloppy, goofy, buttcrack showing, and said he didn't know what to do with us??) and it didn't work out. But, he tries. He never makes sexual advances on me although he has spent the night before. He scratches my back! He does countless favors for me. I can call him any time I need help. He's a master of almost everything. One of those guys you can ask something and he'll have the latest info. We have had several nice dates but only about once a month. He offers his time and skills to all kinds of people if they are in a situation. He refuses any compensation. He's neat, clean, and respectful. We had a loving marriage, with issues at times, for 25 years before we divorced. He rarely drank. I was shocked when he started getting drunk in 2013 and after so many bad incidents came down I couldn't take it. I copped out. My daughter, if you've read anything about her, was enough addiction for me.
I have dated many other men I thought were suitable partners but none made me feel like he does. BTW...where I live now, in a Life Plan Community, he can' move in with me but he has never insinuated that idea. He wants remarriage. He's into the Bible and says he made a promise in front of God to love me forever. We met at a Bible study group in 1985.
Would you like my address so you can send me a bill?? 🤪