Seriously, Paul, I watched a podcast by a very well-known and popular love coach who said to talk about sexual preferences right away. What are their sexual desires? Tell them what yours is. Kind of odd sounding on a first date, but I would not even go out again ever with a guy I met around Xmas had I known he had ED. He took a bunch of expired Viagra thinking it was my job to get him ready to perform. Ummm... at least get some meds that are not four years old! Why is it my job to take care of your issue? Also, oral sex is a big thing, I do not have one girlfriend who can tolerate oral sex. That would be a good thing for many guys to know right away. Do you see where Im going with this?