She doesn't do what they want for them. I believe she offered to pay them, and they told her no. Because they expect a date! Then they disappear when she doesn't show interest in them. She had her basement waterproofed by some nerd and treated him like the hired worker he was, and her basement flooded 2 weeks later. He said too bad. There was no contract. Another guy said he'd put up security lights. I told her he wanted to date her, and she gets mad when I say that. I also tell her how flirtatious she acts. They didn't go on a date, and her lights are not functioning, so she has to hire someone else to fix them. She says she wants to hire the little guys, not the big businesses, and I agree that is good, but check their credentials first. I got screwed over by a snake on FB, so I will never go that route again. I have been on this earth for 70 years. I may have had a few male friends, but not ones that meet me at a bar for a drink every week and not ones I hang on. I know when a guy wants to be more than friends and immediately nip it in the bud. They are usually married men. It's just her way. I do not think she will catch on or change.