Thank you, Elizabeth for reading and commenting. She just text me. She got in a fight with her ex because my grandson really needs to see a dentist and she told him I would take him. My son in law is probably mad at me now too. He has every right to be sick of her. I love her but she screwed him over royally. And he's been a single parent to her 2 children for 6 years now and has only had one or 2 short lived relationships. I always hoped he'd find a mate and calm down some. His anger is palpable. However, she mentioned she wouldn't be around when her sons teeth all fall out and it's her fault. I do not know what to say anymore.