She was clean for 10 years in which she got married and had 2 beautiful children who are still amazing even though she's not been a mother for 7 years now. We have discussed this issue with men. She knows her dad is gone and she can never reconcile their relationship. She sees what happened and all the degradation and pain it has caused for SO MANY years. But, her brain is half fried when it comes to common sense. She wants to be loved as she has seen I have been. I don't know if that will ever happen for her under the circumstances of her past but she is always searching for a man to LOVE her. She confuses sex with love therefore these men must love her if she has sex with them. This is a broken record.