She will be talking about someone and maybe giving them a compliment but then she'll add, "They didn't go to college, but..." But what? She didn't either. But now someone is not as good if they didn't go? I guess I'm OK then since I have a degree but I want to say to her "You didn't go to college either". I'm too nice and just let it go.

Thanks for all the nice things you've said. That's special to me.