So, Edward, since you sound like a very wise gentleman, what if the love of your life is your ex-husband and he wants to reunite? We divorced because he started to drink (get drunk and black out), was in a few accidents (one injured a woman he hit from behind), 3 OVI's, a lot of jail time, blow boxes, party plates, bankruptcy, a seriuos suicide attempt, and losing it all. Now what? Do I believe it can be revived? He's been sober for 3 years. We've has been divorced for 7.