So many do. And often, strong men are overbearing and obnoxious. I won't blame him entirely because I was not a perfect wife, but my ex-husband shattered my life with his weakness and lies about losing his business and then turning to alcohol. I planned to be married forever until it became such a burden. This was a good article, Tom. I did not think along these lines and constantly blamed myself for divorcing my drunken husband because I'm now lonely as hell. But, what's worse? I think being with a weak man is worse after reading this.