So sorry you have to deal with that, Susie. My 55 and older in Ohio is tranquil as they come. We have actual city sewers! Our streetlights are beautiful and look like old fashioned gas lights. The bulb color is amber and even though one is right in front of my house it’s so subtle I don’t even shut my shades. However I rarely need to turn my porch lights in either. No loud coughing, farting, or yelling so far! BUT… the landscapers are loud and here all day when they come. Mowing, blowing, trimming, and whatever and it’s darn annoying one day a week! Those floodlights are insane. My cousin had to put a black shade up in one window so she can sleep at night and she lives in the country. There should be a law regulating that type of nuisance. BTW my back yard is pitch black and me and the neighbor decided we like it so don’t put our back patio lights on at night…. Thank goodness we think alike because my bedroom is in the back. The one by you sounds dreadful. Ugh…. What can you do?