So you were just being a mom. That’s how I see myself too but I guess my kids don’t like my “personality”. For now I will leave them all alone. I see my 2 oldest grandchildren often but now I won’t see the 2 youngest ever ☹️ their mom is actually my “favorite”. But she behaved so terribly on our weekend I felt sick. I know she took some drug or something. There were some gummy’s passed around at the wedding. I had one and it made me sick. I couldn’t talk to her for a few days she shocked me so much. So now she won’t communicate with me.