Sorry to say Bobanna, but things are not all rosy right now. He has great qualities but also has many "little boy" behaviors that are irritating to me. Things I've never dealt with in my marriage. He pouts and is very defensive over the slightest disagreement. I swore to be honest, and so I am. I never saw a grown man pout like a child. It's disturbing. Plus, after 8 months, I still have not grown more attraction to him. He seemed to go off his "diet" and stopped going to the gym like when we met. He acts as if we have been married 20 years! Not even close.