Teresa….that makes me feel sick in my very gut. If I could predict the future and know what will happen I could explain to her. But, 2 family's in our area were wiped out by the father (gun), 4 children in one, 2 children in the other, wives, as well as the dog (in both cases) and the shooter then committed suicide. Everyone thought both family's were stable and loving. No one saw any issues, including their extended families. You just never know.