Thank you. I hope it's not my last, but I just met a guy, and he called me last night. All he did was go on about my looks. Ugh...those are just pictures and looks fade away. I wrote a text to my friend saying he was too focused on looks, and I was disappointed, then accidentally sent it to HIM! I deleted it, but not before he saw some of it, so I was honest and told him how I felt, and he apologized! Whew! I have a date with him tomorrow evening. I am going after those qualities I seek but not perfection, and then, BAM! The guy seems to show his true colors, and I am in a spin. This relationship lasted 10 months. I rarely get past a third date before seeing the reality of the guy I am dating, so I don't waste much time. I write more about the bummers, and this was a big bummer. I thought this guy had it all until I got to know him better.