Thank you, MN. That sounds positive. A bad mom? Why did my daughter turn out like that? If you've read anything about her she is the polar opposite of me. Not that I'm perfect but I don't live as she does. Most days I'm still in shock a child of mine, raised the way I felt I was raising her, turned out like this. Yes, I am a good grandmother. Maybe I can look at my grandchildren and think I had something to do with how they turned out. Moms like validation. Or maybe it's just me and what my family did to me when my daughter started using drugs. They blamed me and I guess I believed them.