Thanks, Deb. You are right. I am allowing it and getting used to it. But, after writing my article and getting so much feedback, I am cutting her out unless she contacts me. I always have my sister to rub it in and tell me what's happening because she delights in making sure I know my daughter likes her more than she likes me and tells her everything. There is WAY more to this story. I do love myself, and I have three other children who love me and four grandchildren. I'm getting better every time I read something like you've written. Are you a psychologist? If not, you are a great inspirational speaker.