Thanks for the cheer on. I don't know where I am going to meet these men. Friends need to spread the word. The people here where I live are all aware I like to date. And all of them are well-educated and must have cousins or something! No one else here dates so I get a lot of attention asking about my love life. ! They were glad I stopped seeing Jon. They didn't want to see his butt crack one more time! He could never say I didn't tell him the issues. He didn't listen.