Thanks, Pierre. I am not an enabler but I have been generous when she is in recovery and living at a facility. I want to reward her efforts. She is job hunting now and if she gets one I hope it will build her self-confidence and self-love. Maybe that will help her get rid of these snakes she thinks love and cares about her. Her big reward is if she stays clean for a year I buy her a subscription to Medium and a laptop. She has contributed to almost every article I have written about her except this one. She loves to read and write.