That would be unfair, but I think the cat that hated your husband was disturbed. And he is a good guy. I could never give my cat away. No one would take her. Especially not the APL or any rescue. I brought her home to rescue her and never thought about the fact that she could outlive me! Plus, her personality is unlike any other cat I have ever known. It's sad. I want to get rid of her sometimes she's so mean to everyone, but then she curls up on my chest in bed, and I melt 😍