That's a common outlook and one in his family has any idea what she suffers. The parents were transitioned from an Amish community so hold some different ways from where my daughter comes from. Depression runs in my family. Her mother in law is a nurse and actually violated HIPPA by telling other family members my daughter was in the hospital. I wanted to do or say something but of course my daughter wanted to keep the peace. If I butt in too much I won't see my grandchildren.