That's a great relationship to hang on to. My ex could have avoided his last 3 DUIs if he had called his sponsor who lived less than 5 minutes away. Carole, you're writing is always a delight to read (maybe not this one) and you've helped pick me up several times. You are definitely on this earth for a good reason. You have the answers right here in your article and know how to get through this. I'm pulling for you and praying. That's my way of coping with life and it's kept me alive. You're an amazing person 💞