That's what I found, too. One family member, my brother, reads my stuff. I did not tell him about it. He found one of my stories of travel that he was in online and found my name. He joined Medium so I have no real secrets from him. Fortunately he holds the same memories as I do. Iva, I do not know what I would have done in your position. Cowered down and apologized? Hell, no! I'm sorry you had to deal with such rudeness, cowardice, and hypocrisy. I admire you so much.