The guy is always blamed for this brainwashed crap. How could she have formed that close of a relationship with him for him to "brainwash" her unless she broke a lot of rules?? I just hate that shitty excuse made by a lot of women but I'm sure it's true in some cases.

Maybe he threatened to have her family killed? I hope she lives to tell but one way or the other someone is going to die because now he's a dead man walking and has nothing to lose.