The guy that hated his dead wife was too honest. I did not need to hear all her mistakes the first week I met him. Once I confronted him, the other guy with the wedding ring was honest. He could have told me from the get-go he just didn't want to be alone, but the wedding ring was a red flag I ignored. But they don't belong on DATING sites. Maybe there is an ONLY FRIENDS site they could join. Dating to me equals a man and a woman who would like to form a romantic relationship. I could be misinterpreting that, but everyone I know is on a dating site to meet a partner for romance who can also be a friend. Thanks for your confidence. Mine has worn relatively thin over the last four years.