The last thing I did for my dad at home in hospice care was hold the urinal he asked for. “ I really need to go”, he said that morning, worried he’d wet the bed. My brother stood him up and I held the urinal in place. I had slept by his bed like you did. He died less than an hour later.
People have nothing better to do than judge others for all kinds of crap that’s none of their business. It’s easy to say “who cares” when it comes to stupidity like that. Wonderful story and brought tears to my eyes remembering that day 12 years ago.