The sad part is we were going to reconcile after he was sober for two years (since our divorce in 2016, he got two more DUIs, and I saw him through a suicide attempt), so he never managed to make it past two years sober. But he was just a couple of months off from the 2-year mark. At this point, I am sure you are wondering why I would want him back. Anyway, while coming over to see me, he had a woman coming to his house to study the Bible on Sundays. Two-timing. When I busted him smelling like alcohol, he avoided me like the plague. Then was torn and confused with guilt for his crappy treatment of me, he promptly got DUI #4. If he came to me today, I have no idea if I'd laugh or cry. I think God is protecting me because my ex has had nothing but bad stuff happen to him, and I have nothing but good happening to me. (except meeting another man)