The world will always view anyone that doesn't fit the usual "mold" as someone to pity, and the fact that you educate us with lectures is much needed. As children, we were raised that way. We had to be polite, not curious, for fear we may say something negative and hurt some ones feelings. So we are all conditioned at a young age—Bravo to you. Your life looks better and more successful than mine with your wife and cute kids.