There is no animosity between any of the 8 cousins. Every wedding they all hang out together. I should send her the photo from the picture booth at the last wedding where most of them crammed into the booth with goofy hats and scarves on. It's a cute picture of them.

I'm still treading lightly since my niece is sick. I don't want to add to her discomfort. And I'm still trying to decide how to approach it. .