These are excellent points; some may be better than others. I do get the overweight guy a little.....but these are excellent for women, too. If I can add one thing....what is it with this chemistry stuff? The thought is if you meet someone and don't feel "chemistry," then it is a no-go. Isn't that more lust, not something to base a relationship on? Just wondering. It often takes several dates to find the qualities in a person that makes them a keeper, and then "chemistry" might occur. Men and women shortchange each other upon meeting; a lot is because of online dating and the process it takes you through. Many matches are eliminated by one sentence in their profile. It's not a normal or fair way to meet.