These are great suggestions. I could get rid of him with the prison thing if nothing else! If I egg him on more, it will just be weird. I am thinking of calling the dating site and seeing if they sent those messages because they are only in my email, not on the site, and his profile is gone because I deleted it as they told me to. Then they said to do such and such, and it would reappear, but it didn't, so I told them, and that's when they said he wanted it hidden. I don't know how to block an email, so I need to figure that out. I see his name on his email but it's common. I can't narrow anything down even on the auditor's site to see if he owns real estate. There are hundreds with his name....which does not sound german.