This actually helps me in a situation I am in right now. I am not crazy about the guys looks but we really think alike, can talk about anything, have the same beliefs, and have known each other for 35 years. Should I marry him? Rather, should I remarry him? We've been divorced for 5 years after he became an alcoholic and I could not live another day with him. He's been sober 3 years now. Do I take a chance?

Drinking aged him in an ugly way. Also a serious accident left him with several fractures that healed in weird ways.

I am sure, with all my heart, if I were to lose a leg, have a mastectomy, or burn half my face, he would still be there for me.