This is amazing and very important to our self-esteem and experiences. Bravo to you! Not worrying about pregnancy is so primo! I will tell you so MANY of my friends want to throw sex in the trash...even my sisters. But I'm going on 70, and I am very much into sex. I feel a bit sorry for them and their husbands, who I doubt want to give up sex. But, they may have ED, and women are hard put to get past that. What is going on here? It sounds like a devilish tactic to destroy marriages. Tris has a handle on this! Thanks, Tris!!!!