This is so true. I see friends wondering why I get flowers and attention from my boyfriend when they try so hard to cater to all their guys needs. I tell them, stop that. He’s using you, taking you for granted, and will move on to another woman in a heartbeat. He’s NOT into you. It’s not your fault. Look for another man! Side note here: I’ve dumped guys who were selfish, not attentive, and I felt weren’t worthy of what I had to offer. Once I leave they are practically begging to get me back! Some men get away with what they can. Don’t take them back!