This makes for one date and never seeing a lot of guys again. It's tiring! But you are right about family. I really liked one guy, and when my daughter dropped by unexpectedly and came into the house, he stood looking out the window instead of talking to her or us. She's really friendly, too. Right then, I knew he was not the right one. I said something later, and he said he was shy. Really? Poor excuse to ignore my child!