Two of my daughters are at odds and call each other toxic. They say they "hate" each other. I witnessed a terrible fight they had on Memorial Day weekend. They each accused me of being on the other ones side. It took a long time for either of them to speak to me! I was a captive audience in a car on the highway while they were screaming at each other. I kept quiet. It pains me to think something could happen to one, and would the other still hate her? The point here is it can be hard on others when you are toxic to someone. I, as their mom, hurt every day over this. They both said terrible things to each other. Sometimes I wonder where my girls grew up because we did not behave like that at our home while they were growing up.