We divorced in 2016 and until last year he was still in my life always planning to reunite as he continued to drink and I knew I wouldn’t, couldn’t, jump back into that hellhole but still loving him very much. Finally he found someone new who had not weathered all the storms with him that I had and he decided he could “start over” with her. You know, start new. Fat chance. He just got out of jail after his 4th DUI. She can have him.