What did she retire on? Or did she remarry? When I think of the men I dated that had money, I was just not attracted to them...well, I could have had a nicer retirement had I been. Plus I wasted the last 6 years thinking my ex was going to stay sober and we could get back together. I did love him but not the drunken chaotic life when he was a full blown alcoholic. But, he just got his 4th DUI and I am giving that plan up and dating for serious now.