When I went on Match last June I had so many guys I had to keep a notebook at first. But, not a one of them turned out. The best one turned out to have a girlfriend for 2 years in a different city. WTF?? He contacted me and when I asked him why he did such a thing he said he wanted to see what was out there. This is a 74-year-old man. We had gone to church together. I did not see that coming.

I sent an email to eHarmony last month and told them I wanted a discount or deal because it was too expensive. I got 6 months for $108. So far, only 3-4 guys are in my area and like you I am in a large metropolitan area. They send me guys over 200 miles away even though I have down 60.

I just hate to give up.