When My daughter was found in the ICU her feet were pure black. They had to scrape the skin off because it was so horrible. I just ignored any looks. She was in her 40’s by then. Not my responsibility. I’m so weary of all of it. Putting up with this for 28 years is made me pretty damn tough. So I hear you, I understand you, and my heart aches for you.
Right now I’m shopping with her son to buy school clothes because she’s on the street and his dad lost his job. All I do is pray.