Yes, it is. I am turned off by him now. Annoying and irritating things piled up, and I am considering how to end it. He told me I was disrespectful of him last week, and that was it! I am NOT disrespectful of anyone if I can help it. He may as well have told me I was a C__T. Disrespectful is a terrible insult to me. I have told him all along I was going to be honest, but apparently, honesty equals disrespect to him. No wonder he said his first wife emasculated him. And his second wife, too. Ugh...I had so much hope for this relationship. I am too ashamed to write about it now.