Hey Ruby I wrote this last December with several other articles about the Life Plan Community I moved to. That is how I solved the problem. I feel good that not only can my kids totally ignore me when I get old, but they won't have to fight over who cares for me or my money, either. It's the best you can do if you can afford ir it.

https://hklarajane.medium.com/the-drama-difficulty-and-drawbacks-of-moving-to-a-55-and-older-community-910b9e507381