Hi James. You may have read it already but this is what happened to me. This guy was "perfect" for me. Meeting me at church was the icing on the cake. He got ahold of me over the holidays to go to dinner. I told him I would unless he still had a girlfriend. He did! Can you believe it? He's still being an ass. I gave up after him and haven't dated since.

https://hklarajane.medium.com/the-great-guy-i-met-on-match-com-finally-told-me-the-truth-dba7410ce5bb

Also, I ghosted a few guys after the first date. It was just the way it had to be done.